This is one of the questions that we ask from ourself and yet hesitate to share our opinion with others. The bitter side is asking this question not because of the curiosity about the answer, but because of the discomfort judgements of the society.
Actually, does sexuality matter?
Here I’m not going to give you a deep explanation about sexuality. I’ll just say it like this…
Sexuality is your sexual orientation and it is not just a physical activity. Sexual feelings, thoughts, attractions and behaviours towards other people also include in the word of sexuality. However, there are different types of sexualities and heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual and asexual is some of them.
Even though sexuality is diverse, it is personal. No one can judge you or tells you what is right and what is wrong about your sexuality. Your sexuality is the important part of who you are.
Your sexuality is not a choice and being straight is not the only normal way to describe someone’s sexuality. The most important thing is you have the right to feel comfortable and to be accepted for who you are.
However, even in this century, people have various judgments regarding different sexualities and most of the judgments are not so supportive. Is that fair for the people who have other sexual orientations and are struggling to be accepted in this society? If they had a choice in their life, they won’t let others hurt their feelings which are too personal for them.
If someone is living a good life and that person is not doing anything illegal or anything which harm anyone else, how does that person’s sexuality matter? There are some extreme scenarios we require to pay attention and sometimes escalate to the relevant parties. But here I’m talking about simple human sexuality.
Therefore, we need to stop categorise people from their sexuality. Still there are some recruiters who ask candidates about their sexuality in their interviews which is irrelevant to the job. In some schools, children are getting bullied just because of their sexuality.
Sexuality is not a reason to be ashamed or embarrassed unless you harm others.
If someone is struggling just because of their sexuality, there are plenty of organisations who are ready to help you. Don’t be ashamed to reveal your sexuality if it is necessary to reveal.
We live in a world where people have lots of different choices. You can’t force someone to like what you like. Therefor, we need to be open-minded when it comes to this kind of sensitive topic.
The answer of the topic is yes, but only for the person who is experience it. Not to others who has the curiosity to know your sexuality.
Hope you enjoyed the reading and thank you for joining with me….
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